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29/09/2017
[16:30] So when I got home last night I went to see my neighbour about the
noise between 01:00 and 04:00 for the last few nights. Eventually the grown up
daughter answered the door and I explained the issue. She was actually quite
apologetic, although confused as to how she'd been making noise. In any event,
Rachel arrived last night (thank goodness), we had a delicious dinner, and then
went to bed. For my part I think I slept all the way through, which was
glorious (even though I woke at 06:10). So either there was no noise, or not
enough to matter/wake me. Alternatively I was just too tired to be woken even
with the same level of noise as previously. In any event I left Rachel to work
from home today and came in to do a day's worth of hopefully giving the correct
technical advice to people (my ex-team leader will no doubt give me the benefit
of his experience (correctly) on Monday), sending a lot of emails, reading up a
lot on the new versions of Red Hat Satellite I'll be installing next week,
worrying about the amount of SAN space we have left, and paying off my gas and
electricity bill for my old house (£1.30). I'm about to go home for the
week, read the electricity meter for the new house and get that utility moved to
a different supplier, then hope the request for the gas comes through soon so I
can do that, too.
Over the weekend I'll be doing parkrun tomorrow morning, then Tesco shopping,
cleaning and tidying and possibly using the wallpaper steamer for the second and
last time, and then getting down to Kings Cross to meet Rachel who'll be going
home to Croydon to play hockey initially, then getting the train with me up to
York for her brother's birthday celebrations. When we come home on Sunday
afternoon there's a chance of having Max and Stacey over in the evening to see
the new house, but they might not be able to make it. And that's the weekend
gone and we're back to Monday again, and October!
28/09/2017
[17:05] Yet more bad karma for me today. This time in the form of the final
water meter reading for my old property. Apparently in the last 56 days I was
in it I used 44 cubic meters of water. In the previous 188 days I used 16
cubic meters. This strikes me as somewhat surprising. The resulting final bill
is therefore for a lot more than I was expecting. After a number of phone calls
to the water company (at least one extra one for being cut off whilest on hold)
I have arranged for someone to come out and re-read the meter with me there next
Wednesday morning. Hopefully this should lead to a better final bill. Of
course, it doesn't stop there. Oh no. The water bill for the new house also is
a mess with a demand for a year's worth of rateable value payable because the
previous owners didn't have a water meter. I got one fitted the week I moved
in, but that still doesn't seem to have been registered on my new water account.
Hopefully once it does I'll get a new bill for the new house with four days of
rateable value water charges, and the rest as metered. We'll have to see.
On top of that I had a rotten night's sleep again as my next door neighbour
still continues to have loud conversations exclusively between 01:00 and 04:30,
and our dividing wall is very thin. I'm dreading going to knock on the door and
asking them to keep the volume down a bit, but it has to be done as it been a
few days now of being kept awake for the darkest part of the night. In the end
I got up this morning and did my run, but I was so tired I kept it to 10K rather
than what I wanted to do.
I managed to function fairly well at work (other than the water bills issues),
and only had to return to a meeting once to tell them that there were more
issues to consider than I'd previously mentioned. Hopefully when one of my
coworkers returns tomorrow/Monday we can deal with the things I forgot, simply.
In the meantime Rachel will be arriving this evening, thank goodness. I could
really do with her calming presence right now.
27/09/2017
[16:55] I didn't quite get all of the remaining wallpaper off last night. I
might have to resort to a few minutes of the steamer after all to get the
remaining recalcitrant bits off. The plastic cover over the old chimney vent
appeared to have been glued to the wallpaper, so obviously that came off. As a
result I now have a pretty much all purple wall, with a small dark hole in it.
I think I'll wait for Rachel to come and give me a hand before I do the
steaming. It's not necessarily a two person job, but it would be nice to have
her company and get it done a bit faster.
Disappointingly, there was a fair amount of loud voices (not necessarily
shouting per se, just louder than average) from next door not only after
midnight, but at like 04:30 in the morning. It's not a television, it appears
to be the grown-up daughter talking to someone else. I'm going to give it a few
more days and see if it's just a period of... something, and then do the
horribly un-British act of going around and asking if they could perhaps keep
the noise down a bit in the wee hours.
In other news I've heard nothing from the builder I asked to give me quotes for
a number of jobs around the house, and I'm still both paranoid and sure that
every shower I have is increasing the damp/water-ingress issue in the corner of
the shower room. There's nothing I can really do about either thing, except in
the latter case maybe make my showers as short as possible, and wipe things dry
as much as I can afterwards. I swear there's swelling in the bottom of
one of the mermaid panels, and I think the damp has even gone through to the
outside brickwork. I know I've said this before, and a builder has said
otherwise, but I honestly do think it's the case. And I'm prepared to pay to
have it fixed. I just wish someone would believe me.
So anyway, I ran this morning. It was a fairly good run, even if I had to stop
about half way around for a few minutes. I don't think it was the rather nice
Chinese takeaway I tried last night, just the way my body behaves in the early
morning sometimes. After that I was fine for the rest of the run. After that I
had the quickest shower I could, then breakfasted, made lunch, and headed to
work. Today has mainly consisted of bits and bobs, a mid-morning chocolate
snack (rare for me), and some low-grade worrying about my house. All in a day's
work, really.
26/09/2017
[16:50] Not much happening today. Was going to be going out for dinner, but
instead I think I may have chinese takeaway to 'sample' what the local one is
like. This may prove to be a bad idea if I'm running tomorrow morning, but I
should take one for the team (especially as Rachel doesn't like Chinese food all
that much anyway). At work I've done a few things with Git and Subversion, run
home and back over lunch (ostensibly for a different route to run, but also to
check I locked the door this morning), and done a lot of email correspondence
about stuff I am both responsible and not responsible for. The latter because
my team leader randomly headed off to a conference without really telling anyone
in his team, so we're dealing with the things he normally would.
About the only other thing of note is that when I got home last night I managed
to strip off pretty much ninety-nine percent of the wallpaper from the 'feature
wall' in the largest bedroom. It's entirely possible I won't need to use the
steamer on it at all. I'll see if I can finish it up tonight once I've been to
the sub-post office in the village to post back the RAM I don't need any more.
25/09/2017
[17:10] A packed and busy weekend. I headed home early on Friday to meet the
builder I'd managed to get to come around. Disappointingly, he didn't confirm
what I thought was rather obvious damp making the bottom right of one of the
mermaid panels swollen in places. I can only hope when he comes back to do some
of the other jobs I asked of him he'll change his diagnosis, and perhaps have a
solution. Maybe when he does the re-sealing and re-grouting I'm asking him to
do anyway. So that was Friday evening. On Saturday morning Rachel had to be up
early so she could get the train all the way home again, drop off various
things, go and play a hockey match, get her house in order, and then get the
train back to me again. A lot of travel, and I'm very grateful to her for doing
it all. For my part I got up around about the same time, then went and did what
is now my very local parkrun (pretty good time, too), came home, and
then spent more hours than I initially realised peeling off as much wallpaper as
I could from the first wall (the 'feature wall' in what has become the master
bedroom despite being the middle-sized of the three). Then it was time to have
some lunch and a sit down, then I popped out to Tesco, got the week's groceries
and some more crockery, and then headed home to do a bit more wallpaper
stripping. Once Rachel arrived we had dinner, collapsed on the sofa for a
while, and then went to bed. On Sunday our plan of leaving for our three hour
run by 09:30 moved to 10:00 and then eventually 10:38. We still managed it,
although Rachel sped off in the last 2-3km and there was nothing I could do to
keep up with her. This was a smidgen galling, but she is just a stronger and
faster runner these days. That knowledge didn't stop me grumping about it for a
few minutes, though. I'm still wincing every time we use the shower because of
the damp I'm sure is getting worse with every usage, but we have to get clean.
I air the room as much as possible though, in the hopes this will help the
wall(s) dry out somewhat each time. After we were clean and fed we decided to
have a go with the steamer wallpaper stripper. After a small false-start we
were going great guns and had the entire wall completely clean in probably less
than 30 minutes. It was so easy I'm considering doing far less pre-work on the
next room's feature wall. I just have to hope I don't come across any extremely
blown plaster. The remainder of the day was spent with Rachel making a rather
delicious cake from a recipe I found online, and then us relaxing for the
remainder of the evening.
This morning it wasn't raining as had been forecast, so I hope Rachel made it to
work dry and in good time. For my part I was a little late, not that it
mattered. Once at work I've spent the day not really realising how quickly the
day has passed by without me getting many of the things I wanted to do done.
I'm heading home now (hopefully without getting wet) to try and do a few of the
house-related things I wanted to do at work in any free time I had, done there.
These include drawing up plans for the shelving and unit I want built, and
potentially getting on to someone about the fact the temperature doesn't really
change on the shower.
22/09/2017
[15:15] Rachel arrived last night, which was wonderful. After we'd said our
hellos and were about to start on dinner I fiddled with her laptop to find out
what the speed of her RAM actually was after all, and if I'd bought the wrong
speed. Turns out I had, which was annoying. There's a whole debacle I could go
in to about it, but at the end of the day, I could have saved my money and used
a DIMM I found surplus at work. What's going to happen is the RAM won't arrive
until next Thursday, but it'll be matched, which I suppose is a good thing. Or
I could send that RAM back too, I guess...
Anyway, other than that we got up early this morning so we could do a fairly
gentle run before work and Rachel's Skype call with someone in Kenya. That went
off without much of a hitch, although I wince every time the shower is on now
that I'm pretty sure it's adding to the damp issue whenever it's used. I'm
about to head home to meet a friendly builder who might have some ideas about
how to fix/repair the issue, as well as give advice/quotes on other things we
want doing in the house. Rachel's there working from home today, so she'll be
able to start asking/answering questions if I don't get home before him. Other
than that, today I finally got a motherboard installed in a server that actually
works, although that lead to a whole other run around with regard to network
interfaces being renamed by udev, MAC addresses needing deleting from
configuration files, and out-of-band service processors being given incorrect
network addresses. Everything is now, I hope, fixed, but it's just another in a
long line of 'making things harder for myself' things that've been happening to
me in the last few months. I'd really like to put a stop to them if I can. Or
at least have a few fewer.
This weekend Rachel'll be heading off early tomorrow morning to play hockey
while I go to parkrun. She'll spend a bit of time at home catching up on the
things she needs to do before coming back to mine again. We might even go for a
burger on her way back from the train station. On Sunday we'll be doing a
really long run (3 hours) and then if we can manage it, attempting the first
round of wallpaper removal with a steamer. That should be interesting.
21/09/2017
[16:50] Things I discovered last night: The temperature sensor under my heated
floor thinks the floor is at 50 degrees centigrade. It is broken. To get it
replaced would be a flat fee of £250, plus potentially a broken tile (of
which I don't have spares). The out of hours service/support line told me how
to shift the system into a mode where it will still heat the floor (which it
thinks is already too hot), but I was disinclined to use it before, now I'm
seriously not interested. I guess I might have to if the floor gets as cold as
I think it might in the depths of winter. It's a shame it takes about ninety
minutes to actually do anything noticable, whilest gobbling up electricity in
the meantime. I also discovered that the mermaid panel on at least one side of
my shower room's shower area is letting water through to the brickwork behind
it. I think it has been doing it so long that the outside brickwork is damp.
At least, that's what it looks like to the naked eye. I've also discovered a
small amount of swelling on a mermaid panel on the inside due to water ingress.
It's probably down to an insufficient amount of usage of sealant, I think. In
any event, it's just more stuff to add to the reasons I'm feeling unhappy about
my house purchase. Of course, the house isn't going to fall down, but it seems
likely that a noticable amount of money is going to need to be spent to put
things right. Some of it I can put off, potentially indefinitely (like the
temperature sensor for the underfloor heating), but the damp thing needs to be
dealt with sooner rather than later. I've just had a text from the previous
owners with the mobile number of the person who did the work back in 2013, and
I've left him a message asking for a call back. Hopefully he, the builder I
have coming around tomorrow for other reasons, but potentially this too, or my
favourite plumber (who hasn't responded yet) will be able to fix things. Of
course, the place where the mermaid panels were purchased from have told me
that that particular design of panel isn't available any more, so if I need it
replacing, I'll need to replace both panels. That'll be between £360 and
£500, plus potentially VAT, and definitely labour by whoever does it.
Then there's the shelving I want done, the floors (mainly upstairs) that are
bowing when walked upon, not to mention the extension I seriously won't be able
to afford for years. And I still need to do the wallpaper stripping, and then
sanding and repainting whatever I find underneath it all. Oh, and a wardrobe,
and a chest of drawers (unless that's dealt with by the bespoke unit I want
installed in the bedroom I'm using as mine).
All in all, things could be going better. And they will, once Rachel arrives
this evening. I hope she's not too delayed by work. She works so hard, I try
to help by getting her useful things, like a laptop sleeve, and a spare power
adaptor, and more RAM. She's working from home tomorrow, which will be lovely
as it means we can run in the morning before work, and then she'll be there when
I get home. As I have a builder coming over tomorrow, and I was in early this
morning to resize a VM's hard drive, I'll be leaving in time to get home before
she has to entertain him for too long. But that's tomorrow. Today I've mainly
been doing the above, and trying not to bothered by the new additions to the
office who smell of cigarette smoke or body odour whilest putting out the usual
amount of small fires. Tomorrow morning should be about another go at an
engineer replacing a motherboard in a remote server room with me for company,
and whatever else crops up in the usual run of things.
20/09/2017
[16:50] Today was, if not a 'normal' day, then very close to being one. I woke
up early, got up, went for a run, came home, had a shower, made lunch, had
breakfast, and got to work before 09:00. I've had a morning of doing normal
work-related things, called the council and squeezed out contact details for the
company that cladded the exterior of all the council-owned council houses (mine
is, obviously, privately owned), had lunch, scored some free lunch from a
conference, done an afternoon of work, prepared for an earlyish start at work
tomorrow morning, and even found and printed out the manual for my central
heating RF remote control.
I should head home now to move the steamer wallpaper remover from behind my bins
where it being delivered as I write this and into the house.
19/09/2017
[17:20] Well the day didn't start well when I discovered that the RAM I'd
ordered which had arrived apparently didn't match what Dell's web site said
Rachel's laptop was shipped with. And yet I was sure I remembered what
it actually said on the DIMM itself. I've arranged for an RMA number to return
the DIMM and order the 'right' one, but I'm going to wait for Rachel to bring
her laptop back on Thursday evening and I can open it up and confirm what I was
sure was printed on the label on the DIMM itself before sending the delivered
part back. I was in a bit of a state over the course of the weekend, what with
all the stress of the house collapsing in on me finally, and then thinking I'd
bricked the laptop when I didn't reseat the RAM properly. But to be so
forgetful as to see what was printed on it, then immediately buy the wrong
thing... well, that'd be a bit silly. Anyway, I've got a few days before the
RMA procedure expires, and it'll be freepost and a full PayPal refund, so
either way nothing'll be lost other than a bit of time waiting for the right
stick of memory to arrive. In other news, the spare power adapter and the
protective sleeve/case have shipped, so might arrive before the weekend, which
would be nice.
Work wise I got in in good time and set to work on a number of small but useful
jobs over the course of the day. Mostly upgrading various bits of software,
doing firewall and load balancer changes, and making people clarify what they
actually wanted in both cases before I actually did anything. Some of my
previous exhortations bore fruit this morning with regard to disk usage on a few
servers, so that was good too. During all of this I was on the phone with my
old utilities provider, trying to get them to take over the gas and electricity
supplies at my new home. I probably should have just stayed with the company
already providing at the new house as I'd closed my old account and had to fire
up a new account for the new house anyway for the time between moving in and my
prefered provider taking over. However, I've spent so much time on it now I was
damned if I was going to let the situation beat me. In the end it turned out
that I couldn't get the tariff I wanted without having them tear down everything
to do with taking over the supplies at the new house and me actually applying,
on my own, without someone on the phone, online. This I eventually did and it
looks like things are finally on the right track. I'll have some readings to
take, etc. in two and a bit weeks, but otherwise I think we're good to go. Once
that's done I can then start asking for smart meters. I'm extremely interested
in how my gas and electricity consumption are going to stack up next to how much
I used in the old house. I'm of the opinion things are going to be somewhat
more expensive per month and year.
Over lunch I went out and did a slowly speeding up 10K, rather than
sprintervals, as I just couldn't face pounding around a track and getting really
exhausted. Now I'm going to go home, have a quiet evening, and think about
whether or not I want to run a little longer than today tomorrow morning before
work. Oh, and I also put up some curtains last night. Well done me.
18/09/2017
[18:00] For the most part it was a fabulous extended weekend. Rachel arrived on
Thursday evening and there was much rejoicing. We looked around the house
together and she set my mind at ease about a few things, we had dinner, and then
went to bed as we were both knackered for different reasons. On Friday we
didn't get up too early, but were forced to when the guy from the water company
announced he was 30 minutes out from being able to install my water meter. He
duly arrived on time and the fitting of it (in what I thought was a fairly
cramped location) went ahead without any issues. So that was one useful thing
done. I can't quite remember what else we did that day, but I'm sure there was
handing over the house's ex-owner's passport, which arrived in the post, going
for a short run together with Rachel, and having lunch with Shaun to thank him
for helping with the move. Oh yes, and we went out to do some shopping for
various useful things, but couldn't get a laptop for Rachel as they didn't have
the one we wanted in stock, apparently. Anyway, by the end of Friday we were
very ready for bed again. On Saturday we got up horribly early so we could get
a train to London in the hopes of doing the original Bushy Park parkrun before
meeting other people for a run along the river near Richmond Park.
Unfortunately the trains were just late enough that we couldn't make the parkrun
start in time, so we wandered around the park itself for a short time, then
headed to the meeting point to meet some of the other people doing the marathon
in Kenya next month. A run of just under ten miles was duly had before we went
our separate ways. Rachel and I were famished, so ended up eating a nice eatery
a few streets away, and then we got trains to our respective houses (most for
Rachel to check her house was still in one piece, drop everything from her trip
to Kenya, and get herself a few moments to herself). Rachel then arrived back
at my place later on in the evening, in time for us to have a very nice dinner
together. I did have a little bit of a meltdown on Saturday evening (or maybe
it was Sunday) owing to my piling stresses (both real and imaginary) on myself
over the last few days, weeks, months (and in some ways, years). Luckily Rachel
is amazing and helped me put everything in perspective. I'm still worried about
lots of things to do with the house, but I'm not quite so freaked out about
them. On Sunday morning we decided to go for a longer run (time, rather than
distance) so I took us on a route I'd run with the local triathlon club a few
weekends before, which was rather nice. We showered in my new shower room (with
plastic bags up to protect the plaster from getting wet (I don't know how the
previous owners managed not to damage the plaster long term)), had a nice
lunch, and then headed out to get Rachel's new laptop and a switched 4-gang for
me. For the rest of the day I indulged in setting it up for her whilest she
indulged in optimising my kitchen. While she had great success (the kitchen
looks great, and there's more room for everything I need), I managed to briefly
brick her laptop by taking the back off to check I could do a RAM upgrade and
didn't reseat the single DIMM in there properly. That caused a bit of swearing.
As a reward for fixing it again, not to mention everything we'd done over the
weekend we treated ourselves to a sampling of the new-to-us local Indian
takeaway and were very pleased with the results.
And that takes us to this morning. Rachel's first cycle to the train station
from the new house (we went to London using the new station closer to the house,
but it was a serious hassle getting home again, so I don't think we'll do that
again any time soon), her wearing her new cycle helmet which she bought over the
weekend, and my first Monday in the new house, with getting to work. I have to
say that leaving the house a bit earlier certainly made the new part of my cycle
commute a lot more pleasant, so maybe I'll become more of an early bird again.
I spent most of the morning trying to get my utilities moved from the old
address to the new one as they had stubbornly refused to change despite me using
the online form to do so. Then I managed to steamroller myself into choosing
the wrong new tariff on the new account, so had to spend more time getting them
to tear down and then recreate a new account such that I can move it to the
right tariff. I'm going to have to wait until tomorrow to get that finished.
Then I had to actually call the new house's current utilities provider to get
them to create a short-term account (at a horrendous tariff) between the time I
moved in and when my provider of choice takes over the metering. Even more
annoyance. Good news came in the form of getting a response from a
carpenter/joiner/builder to come and look at the things I want doing (not
immediately, but at least I got a reply), probable confirmation that I don't
need new filters for my kitchen extractor fan as it's not a recirculator, and
someone will be able to lend me a steamer wallpaper stripped in a little while
so that I can remove the 'feature wall' wallpaper in three rooms (and maybe the
staircase). Workwise I dealt with a lot of stuff that is normally spread over a
few more people (who're on holiday or needed to be at home for other reasons),
helped an engineer replace a motherboard in one of our server rooms (which
didn't work in the end as there was a DIMM slot failure on the new board), and
coordinated some server VM disk space reconfiguration actions, which probably
won't happen tomorrow, but might have to happen on Thursday rather than me doing
a before-work run.
Right now though it's home time. I'm pooped.
14/09/2017
[18:35] Another night in the new house. I got home after going to John Lewis
for some bits and bobs and forced myself to head out for a short run rather that
simply go home and eat. Happily, one of the things I bought was my housewarming
present from my parents; an induction-compatible grill/griddle pan. This meant
I was able to cook one of my favour go-to meals, which includes ostrich steaks.
I did also use the shower in the house for the first time (other showers were
had at work after running). That was interesting, and leads me to believe I may
need to get some more waterproofing done in the bathroom to both wall and floor
(tile grouting). But that shouldn't need doing straight away.
After another night when I woke in the middle of it, and therefore didn't want
to get up at 06:00 for a run I eventually got up and headed to work. I'm
discovering that the junctions I've crossed over on a Saturday morning to get to
parkrun are a lot busier on a weekday morning and evening. I really
need to be careful when going over them on the cycle path. But I survived
getting to work today and have spend the day trying to reduce the number of
issues being flagged up by our monitoring system. An exercise in futility for
the most part as many of them are things I just can't do anything about.
At lunch time I went into town and got spare parts for one of Rachel's bikes in
Croydon, went and got my "so you're now over 40 years old" health checkup (which
left my arm pretty sore after the blood draw) and went back to John Lewis to
return something which I bought last night. What's more important is that
Rachel arrives home from Kenya to my local train station in about forty minutes,
so I need to head off, find her bike at the station and then cycle home with her
to show her how I'm settling in. We're not going to work tomorrow, so we'll
have some time to reconnect, do some unpacking, go for a run together, and
perhaps even have some lunch with Shaun in one of the local pubs to thank him
for helping me move. It'll also be the first time Shaun has met Rachel. Oh,
and in the morning I hope to be getting a water meter fitted, although there's a
chance it won't be as I think the stopcock is in a really problematic place.
Here's hoping if it can't be fitted close to it, it can be fitted elsewhere on
the property, like the one in my old (rented) house was.
Anyway, see you on Monday. Over the weekend we'll be going to London to do some
running with some of the other people going to Kenya with us next month, and
probably some other stuff I haven't thought of yet. Mostly it'll be doing
things with Rachel, which is all I really care about.
13/09/2017
[16:50] Second night in the new house and I slept a lot better, thank you. I
even managed to get the oven to work (there's a manual). However, the wind
blowing a minor gale this morning, plus still feeling absolutely shattered in
the morning meant that I didn't end up running before work. I also didn't get
to go running at lunch time either as I got Chris to give me a lift home to
check that my broadband was up and running and that the delivery from Yodel was
going to be accepted. In the end the broadband worked first time and the
delivery actually fitted through the letterbox, which was great.
Back at work this afternoon I've been faced with a few issues I haven't had to
deal with in a long time as John's been taking care of them. Also a few issues
have cropped up which would have been my problem if I'd been associated with
them. Happily I wasn't, so I get to go home on time. And by home I mean to
John Lewis to buy an induction hob compatible non-stick grill/griddle pan and a
similarly non-stick sauce pan.
Rachel arrives tomorrow!
12/09/2017
[17:25] Well, I'm moved. I'm in, and now the process of unpacking and adapting
myself to fit this new shape of house begins. It has been an interesting few
days. On Saturday I went out to parkrun and ran pretty much as fast as I can at
the moment. This netted me a reasonable, but not extraordinary 5K time. 25
seconds off my PB for the same course, 43 seconds of Rachel's PB for the same.
Still, not too bad for my age, I guess. After that it was back home to shower
and do more packing and cleaning. Most of the afternoon was spent paying the
help I was going to get on Sunday forward by helping Shaun's brother-in-law move
house. Just a bit of lifting. Not all that much. Saturday night I ate fairly
well, I think. I don't remember much about it, but I tried to get a reasonably
early night.
On Sunday morning I just couldn't sleep past about 04:00 so got up around 07:00
and after having breakfast decided to go for a run to work off some stress. In
the grand scheme of marathon distances, 16km isn't all that much, but it
helped. When I got home I had texts from Rachel, my landladies, and the seller
of the house. Rachel had had her laptop and Garmin watch stolen from her hotel
room while she was at breakfast, so I spent a useful few minutes changing all
of her Google-related passwords for her (luckily she'd had her passport and
smartphone with her). My landladies had some queries about things, and the
house seller wanted me to arrive a little later to learn how the house worked.
When I eventually went over there we spent about an hour going through
everything, which was remarkably helpful (although still need to sit down and
spend a good period of time working out how the under floor heating and the
remote controlled central heating actually work). After that I went home, did
some more packing, including packing the van once Shaun had delivered it
towards the beginning of the evening, and then tried to relax with a delivery
pizza before bed.
Naturally I didn't sleep all that well, although perhaps that was down to my
left hand next door neighbour's smoke/fire/carbon monoxide alarm going off at
midnight. It went on so long I actually got dressed and broke into their back
garden so I could look into their windows and see if there was a fire. I even
called the emergency services, but they told me that unless I could see either
smoke/flames or people in black and white striped jumpers having it away on
their toes with a television set I'd just have to try and ignore it. About
twenty minutes later the alarm stopped, but I don't think I got much more sleep.
Moving day went fairly smoothly in the end. I had keys from Sunday's meeting,
so once Shaun and Fran arrived we drove over there and did the first unload.
After Cormac arrived we went back, had some packed lunch (courtesy of Fran),
then loaded up the van with stuff for the tip (my old sofas (used to be Shaun's)
and some DVD/CD stands) and furniture. After that it was just bikes,
bookshelves, and the mattress. Once everything was in the house Cormac, Shaun
and Fran went home and I attempted to start unpacking a bit. It turns out the
new kitchen has significantly less storage space than the old one, so I'm
definitely going to have to rationalise/slim down what I own. After a few hours
of emptying a few boxes I got fed up, made the lounge presentable, accepted
delivery of the fridge freezer, ordered a curry, and literally made the bed
(framel). The food arrived as I was finishing the bed (perfect timing) so I
settled down to watch a film for a bit and ate. Around 22:00 I figured it would
be OK to cycle back to the old house and empty the fridge freezer there. So I
cycled over (ten minutes), stuck everything in my panniers and cycled back to
load up the new appliance.
I don't know if it was first night nerves, the two slices of leftover pizza I
ate on the cycle back from the old house, the curry, the second naan I had to
order to qualify for free delivery (cost more than the naan), the new house
sounds (including traffic noise), the shot of whisky I had to celebrate moving
in and surviving, or the air (temperature), but I had a horrible night's sleep
and woke in the small hours with a headache like I haven't had in more years
than I can remember. It persisted all the way through my cycle into town to get
my fridge freezer warranty card filled in, my two bank account home addresses
changed, and the cycle to work. I can still tell it's there now, even after a
morning of work, getting my utilities notified of all meter readings at old and
new properties, helping my landladies help the water reader guy read the meter
at the old property (over the phone), a fairly relaxed run at lunch time, and
an afternoon of work. I'm about to go home, take stock, go to the new very
close Tesco, and then consider doing another box or two. I might even learn how
to use the induction hob and work out which of my pans work on it. I really
need a non-stick griddle pan that does. Hopefully my home broadband will come
on tomorrow, too.
08/09/2017
[16:35] A somewhat quieter today, thank goodness. I almost decided to get up
and run this morning as the residual stress meant I was awake and staring at the
ceiling at around 04:00, but decided at least trying to doze was a better use of
my time. Given Rachel's probably not getting to run much I can claim it's a
form of solidarity not to be doing so either this week (and potentially next
week, too). Nothing really happened at work today other some useful
administravia and my line manager finally getting on the case to get some
really, really old servers (and their virtual guests) decommissioned. I don't
think it'll happen any time soon, but at least it's not just me banging my drum
on my own any more.
I began packing the kitchen up last night and rapidly discovered that I'm at
least two moderately large boxes short of what I need to finish packing
everything. All of my glassware, crockery, and cutlery is unboxed. I think
what I'm going to have to do is unpack a few boxes at the far end and bring them
back. This shouldn't be an issue at all and means, in a way, that I'll already
have started unpacking! See, this is me being positive about something.
Anyway, there are enough odds and ends remaining unpacked that I'd need to bring
back some boxes for that stuff, so it's not like I wouldn't have had to have
done it for another reason. What I might use is the collapsable crates, even if
they are much smaller than most boxes, and I only have two of them. Maybe the
crates and a box or two. In any event, I think I've got a handle on what's
required.
The plan for the next three days is as follows: Tonight I go home and do very
little. Maybe watch a film and make dinner from things in the fridge and
freezer. Saturday morning I cycle to parkrun, warm up a lot (including lots of
abdominal stretching), run hard to very hard (depending on how my abdominal area
responds to doing so), cycle home again, shower, and then consider what I can
squeeze into already closed (necessitating reopening them) boxes. Dismantle the
bed and put the mattress on the floor. Some time on Saturday perhaps head over
to help Shaun move his brother-in-law to a new house. Hopefully eat a little
more from fridge/freezer/unpacked cupboards. Sunday morning I will potentially
go for a long run early on so I can be showered and cycling to the new house in
time to arrive around 11:00. Learn things about the new house from the current
owners, and take away a set of keys. Sunday afternoon I'll do some cleaning
and box arranging near the front door. Some time later on Sunday Shaun drops
off the van and I pack it as sensibly as I can without straining anything.
Monday morning Shaun arrives and we drive to the new house, I read the meters,
we unpack the first load, I empty a few boxes, and we drive back to the old
house and maybe do another run before lunch. Shaun potentially drops me off at
the new house with a bike (or I cycle there) and I move boxes around while he
uses the broadband at my old house to work from home until John Lewis deliver
my fridge freezer. I wait a little bit, maybe we do a run with the van to move
the majority of the furniture and my mattress, and then plug in the fridge
freezer. I wait a little more and then we shift whatever I have left in the
fridge and freezer, I read the meters at the old house, do E.ON's online moving
house procedure and then I lock up and post the keys through the letter box. I
then go to my new house, maybe assemble the bed frame, or maybe sleep on the
mattress on the floor for some silly symbolic reason, and head to work on
Tuesday morning. Somewhere in there I'll be buying Shaun and Cormac some food
and drink.
So, that's my next three days. I hope you have a pleasant few. More news when
I return.
07/09/2017
[17:10] I had another Day today. Herewith roughly what happened. This morning
I was still a significant amount short of the money I needed. I transfered it
from one account at 06:00, then went for a run as I couldn't sleep. This didn't
seem to cause any hernia-related discomfort, so that was a positive, at least.
Once I got back I check the next account in the chain and the amount was
available. I duly FasterPayment'd it over to my account at 07:30 - as one
lump sum, having seen on both bank's web sites that this amount was acceptable
to transfer in one go. Come 12:00 and while it has gone from the sending
account, it was not showing in mine. Cue more stress. Rather than wait and wait
and wait and perhaps see it bounced back, I called another - amazing,
wonderful - friend and got the cash from them... although only half of it was
reflected in my online banking balance (of course it was). After stressing some
more I went in to the bank, had to sit for 30 minutes for an appointment -
during which time I at least ascertained that all of the money had finally
cleared - and then began the CHAPS process. It was at this point that (not
having been told this on the phone) I found that having my bank card, knowing
the PIN, and details of transactions on the account wasn't enough ID. Would my
driving license do? Why yes it would. Wait, that's not the address on the
account. No, that's my parents' address because I was due to emigrate so
changed it to what amounted to my "address here", then didn't, and have
been in rented accommodation since. Ah, well, that might be a problem for
IDing you... Even in this day and age, it appears that pleading with the
bank/branch manager (by proxy, the person doing the CHAPS transfer for me went
to see him 'upstairs' and was very much in my corner) is still a thing.
Long story short, CHAPS transfer approved.
Counter to my previous experience with getting money out of my other bank, the
other CHAPS transfer went perfectly well over the phone, although the callback
took significantly longer to happen than I was comfortable with.
So there you have it. Both CHAPS transfers to my solicitor are - apparently -
in motion. I owe two people a lot of money and a great deal of thanks, this
morning's transfer had finally arrived in my account when I made it back to the
office so I was able to pay that back immediately, which took a little bit of
complication out of my current financial situation.
I don't feel happy, or excited, or even relieved. Just numb. There's still lots
to do and unpick now. Although much of that won't happen until next Thursday,
when my held up money should appear, somewhere, in some account. Probably.
I'm going home now. Not to celebrate, but to do some more packing, and then
hope to get a full night's sleep without grinding my teeth.
06/09/2017
[17:55] So today has been what's technically known as A Day. It started off
with me checking myself for herniated bits and bobs for most of the morning,
meaning I wasn't feeling all that great by the time I gave up and got out of
bed. At the doctor's surgery things were already running behind by a good 20
minutes, which didn't help. The diagnosis was... inconclusive, but I feel like
if I start running right now the discomfort/pain is going to come right back,
which is incredibly disheartening. Unsurprisingly, I haven't been
thinking/worrying about it all that much because of what has been going on since
then.
After leaving the surgery I headed to the bank that holds all of the money I
intend to put towards the new house and asked them to help me transfer it all to
the account I wanted to do the CHAPS payment from to my solicitor. They
couldn't even access my investment portfolio account because that's a
completely different arm of the bank to the savings bit, and they couldn't
access my ISA because I didn't have anything with me that they'd accept as ID
for doing so. So I decided to just do everything from my computer at work.
When I got to work it turned out I couldn't do withdrawals from my ISA online,
so I had to call up and do it over the phone. Fair enough. Fifty percent of my
money ready to go. Then I turned to my investment portfolio and (like an idiot
who hadn't looked into this fully beforehand) worked my way through transfering
the money from shares/stocks 'units' into money, and then having it transfered
to the cash-only part of the account. First of all I was stymied by only being
allowed to take out a maximum of ninety-five percent of the total in it (fair
enough), but then I discovered to my horror that the turn around for the money
going from 'units' to my nominated account was six working days. Given
I complete contracts for the house purchase next Monday (three working days from
now), this was something of a Problem. I spent a long time on the phone trying
to get them to make things go faster, but apparently it's set in stone. I
called my solicitor/conveyancer, who, in his many years of doing his job, had
never had someone come to him with this problem of being in potential breach of
contract. We went through the numbers of the money I'd owe, the interest rates
on that, on the mortgage payment I'd be short, on the mortgage payment the
seller might be short if they needed the money the same day, and the solicitor
fees that would naturally be generated for causing this kind of problem. The
generous estimate was tolerable, but not pleasant. I rang off, called the
seller to explain, then called my parents to panic a bit. They're not all that
well off, so were definitely not going to be able to help me in financial
regard, but they were very helpful emotionally, and got me thinking clearly.
Which is when I remember that I have an astonishingly lovely, wonderful,
generous, caring, and giving girlfriend. In Kenya. Extremely luckily, at the
time I tried to get in contact she had just landed from flying from Uganda, so I
was able to have a long international phone call with her where she told me how
to get the money I needed. Or at least, the lion's share of it. For the final
bit I reached out to another very, very good friend who, on hearing my plight
also agreed to lend me the money until next Thursday (when the bank should
hopefully give me what's mine). At that point I'll make a couple of very big
transfers back to Rachel and my friend and count myself extremely lucky
that I have them both in my life. I've called my solicitor and the seller and
told them both the good news, and with luck I should be able to do the last
transfers into my account tomorrow morning and the CHAPS transfers later on in
the morning or in the afternoon.
So, not really any time to think about a potential hernia. Although I have
desperately wanted to go for a run (away, from everything). I'm very scared
that if I do the pain/discomfort will come back straight away and leave me even
more disheartened, though. Did I already say that? I can't remember. One of
those days, I guess. Sorry.
More news on everything financial and stuff tomorrow. I'll be trying a run
before work, so news on that front, too. Hopefully good.
05/09/2017
[17:10] I'd fully intended to go and do my sprintervals at lunch time today. I
was even four minutes into my jog there when I felt a very weird sensation in my
lower abdomen (like a weird tendon pop thing) and then some discomfort. I
stopped, gave it a massage (couldn't feel anything) and then started running
again. A few steps later the discomfort came back again. I gave it another
rub and tried running again. When the same feeling came back I immediately
thought the worst (inguinal hernia), stopped running and walked back to the
building, showered and have spent the rest of the afternoon sitting down and
scaring myself with internet searches and worry. As it is I've got a health
check thing scheduled for next Thursday which is what men my age are being
offered now to check cholesterol and blood pressure and things like that. Even
though I had an ultrasound a few years ago to check this stuff out I think I'll
mention it again and hope it's not a worsening of whatever I did or didn't have
before. It couldn't have come at a much worse time considering I'm going to be
picking up a lot of heavy boxes in the next week, the running a marathon in
seven weeks or so from now.
Work-wise some stuff has happened. Nothing all that interesting other than the
dodgy UPS at one of our server rooms is now back online and serving power.
Hopefully it won't go wrong any timer soon, or at all, really.
I've just been for a very very short jog and the discomfort/pain came back in
what seems like exactly the place that could mean an inguinal hernia on the left
hand side. One person reckons either trapped wind or my period(!), my mother
wonders if it could be a pulled muscle. I hope it's any or all of those things,
and not something that could require surgery, and risk my running in Kenya.
I've managed to get a doctor appointment for tomorrow morning, so hopefully
they'll be able to either put my mind at rest, or progress things as quickly as
possible. I'll 'happily' have it done privately if it means getting it done
quickly in time for me to be ready to run in Kenya.
04/09/2017
[17:35] So Rachel can receive texts but not send them, while she's in Uganda.
Her internet access is also limited, so we're not getting to email all that
often. Still, when we do we get to swap the emails we've been writing offline.
At least in her case, I can write them while I'm online, so that's OK. Anyway,
that's that.
Over the weekend I ran to and from parkrun, which meant that my actual parkrun
wasn't all that fast, which was disappointing, even as I got a good ten miles of
running in over the course of the morning. It was even more disappointing when
I realised that someone who didn't used to be a runner, but was a much stronger
rower than me is now a faster runner than me, too. I think I might have to
start making Saturday mornings my second speed session of the week and see if I
can start approaching my 5K parkrun PB time again. I'm not sure how possible it
is as I honestly do feel like I'm seriously slowing down with age (despite
knowing a lot of people older than me who are getting faster, or have remained
fast). So that was Saturday morning. I spent much of the remaining hours of
Saturday packing. All of my clothes bar the ones I need for the next week have
now been packed. Various items of furniture have been moved downstairs. The
bathroom has been cleared of everything but the essentials. The lounge/dining
room area is now a sea of boxes. All I really have left to do is the kitchen
entire, and various odds and sods around the place. Oh, and to dismantle the
bed. But I won't do that until Sunday. Once I was tired of packing (and
vacuuming) I ordered pizza and settled down for an evening of relaxation. On
Sunday I got up early enough to make it to the same parkrun location to do a
long run with the local triathlon club. I've done it a few times before and
they're happy for me to come along. I ran there (shorter route this time), did
the 19km or so, then ran home again the same way. This, despite it not being
all that hard (except for the last 4km or so) was enough to tucker me out for
the remainder of the day. I struggled home, showered, had some lunch, and then
went to the new house to collect the post which has already started to
accumulate there. After that I went to the Tesco closest to the new place and
tried to find all the stuff I would normally get, in totally new locations.
Then I went home and did nothing at all for the rest of the day, which was
totally what I needed. I even went to bed before 22:00 as I was totally
exhausted.
This morning I didn't feel too bad, but I was very glad I wasn't getting up to
run before work or at lunch time today. At work I've mainly been doing stuff
with Red Hat Satellite, doing the Ansible configuration of the six new servers I
cloned on Friday, and generally dealing with a mass of servers running into
their warning zones with regard to disk usage. I'll be in slightly earlier
tomorrow morning to do a small bit of maintenance on a server, and then we'll
have to see what the rest of the day brings, other than some rather unpleasant
sprintervals at lunch time which I've invited Max to come along to, if he's in
town. Oh, I also changed a few more addresses today. Importantly, my driver's
license, which has been showing my parents' address since I thought I was going
to be emigrating to the USA, and my Sweaty Betty brochure address (as I buy
Rachel things from there which catch my eye).
01/09/2017
[16:30] Well, we've made it to September. The month I move house. Not too long
now, and things are starting to come together... I hope. I've ordered my fridge
freezer and, just like with everything else in my life that I've been paying
money for, it's probably at the point it's at its most expensive judging from
PriceSpy. This is how things seem to be going for me with regard to the house,
and things in it. I've probably spent a good number of thousands of pounds
more than I needed to over everything to do with it. I guess it doesn't matter
all that much so long as I get my money's worth, continue to save hard where I
can, and don't waste money on things I don't actually need. I've also been told
that my friend has hired the van he's going to be driving my stuff to the new
house in, which is great. I'll also be getting it on the Sunday evening before
the Monday moving day. This means I can fill it at my 'leisure' the day before,
meaning the first thing to happen on Monday morning as soon as he arrives is us
driving over to the new house to unload. Chances are we might be able to get
pretty much everything done before I have to sit around for the afternoon and
wait for the fridge freezer to be delivered. This could be extremely handy. I
mean, we may have to wait for the late afternoon/evening to shift some of the
more problematic bits of furniture that require more than two people, but if
everything's done but one final trip by lunch time I'll be quite pleased.
Other than that I got a text from Rachel saying she'd arrived at her first port
of call safely, which was a relief. I should go over the course of the weekend
and collect some post from the new house which already seems to be accumulating,
and maybe even consider what I'm doing over the weekend (packing, obviously).
I'm sure I'll squeeze in a parkrun, maybe another run on the Sunday, a Tesco
trip (paying attention to what I do and don't need to carry to the new house,
especially as the new fridge freezer will need to sit quietly in the corner for
a few hours once it arrives before I switch it on).
Oh, I nearly forgot: work. Yes, I did some work today. Mainly though I've been
sitting around waiting for VMWare to crank out six new VMs from the same
template, which was in a different location to where the VMs need to be. So
that's been taking all day. I might just leave that to go on its own over the
weekend, then run Ansible over them on Monday morning.